Is He Cheating? Why?

The biggest fear a girl can have during a relationship is that her guy is, will or was cheating. I know how stressful it can be when you suspect the one you love of cheating. So here are some signs that he is cheating on you, although none of them mean that he is unfaithful for sure. (Credit goes to www.ivilliage.com "32 Emotional Signs That He Is Cheating.")
1. Your guy is much more attentive and loving than usual. Now you are probably thinking, "isn't that a good thing?". Well yes, it might be. But it might also mean that he feels guilty for cheating and wants to make up for it.

2. Your guy is all of a sudden buying you gifts. Once again, it might be a good thing, or it might mean that he is, again, trying to make up for his guilt.

3. Your guy fights with you out of nowhere. This is also bad and might mean that he is trying to find an excuse to leave the house, or wherever you two are, so that he can meet his other girl.

4. Your guy always brings up the topic of your relationship ending. This is never a good thing. Its a big sign that he is cheating and wants another girl.

5. Your guy is always moody around you and acts depressed when he is with you. This might mean that he is just in a bad mood. However if you see that he all of a sudden turns happy when he is leaving, he is probably cheating.

6. You and your guy are living together yet he never talks to you. Thats a big warning sign!

7. Your guy stops complimenting you on your appearance. Either he lost interest, or he finds someone else more attractive.

8. A BIG one! If he stops telling you he loves you, watch out.

9. Your guys starts acting guilty and upset when you do something for him. This is because he knows he is betraying you, and your kindness reminds him of what an idiot he is!

10. Your guy accuses YOU of cheating without evidence. Now I listed the major signs, but you can look deeper into it by going to the website I provided above.

After having read this, you must wonder why guys cheat? Its hard to understand why, but there are a few reasons why a guy would find it necessary to cheat. (Some credit goes to www.divinecaroline.com "Ten Reasons Men Cheat.")

1. It boosts their ego. If you don't make your guy feel attractive or wanted, he will go and try to see how many girls he can get in order to feel good about himself.

2. You argue a lot. Trust me, no matter how much a guy loves you, he wants to feel like he is safe with you. If you don't provide him with that safety, he will find it elsewhere.

3. They just don't love you anymore. This is pretty self explanatory.

4. Your intimate love life is bad. If you don't let him be with you, he will be with someone else.

I know it sounds harsh but most of the time, he cheats because of you. Just try to look at your mistakes and try to improve yourself and then you are GUARANTEED to have a happy, healthy relationship! GOOD LUCK!