Now before you read these, these tips are NOT scientifically proven. They are more based on what I, and some friends of mine went through when we realized we met the right guy.
1. Firstly, I strongly believe that if you are looking for someone, you will never find the perfect guy for you. Once you stop looking, you will be suprized at how quickly you find the love of your life.
2. Secondly, it is very possoble that you already know the guy you are meant to be with. It is also possible that you don't like him in that way at the moment. Here is an interesting story for you guys. I met Jonathan for the first time when I was 16. I really didn't think anything of him, I didnt even think I would see him ever again. When I was moving to LA, I knew Jonathan would be here, and in all honesty, I really didnt like him. I can't explain why I was against him, but I was. Three months after we started dating, I realized that I really love him. So your prince charming will be the person that you would never expect to fall inlove with.
3. If you already have someone, pay attention to how he treats you. You know you have found the perfect guy for you when he considers your opinions as well as his. You know youve met the right guy when he treats you like a lady, not like one of his buddies. You know youve met the right guy when he respects you. You know youve met the right guy when he compromises.
4. How do you feel when you see your guy? Do you feel normal, or do you have butterflies in your stomach? I know that sometimes, when I see Jonathan, I am happy but I dont get that weak feeling in my knees or butterflies in my stomach. Does that mean he isn't the one? NOT AT ALL. If your mood gets better when you see him, he probably is the best guy for you.
1. He disrespects you. If he treats you poorly, mentally or phisically, get the hell out of the relationship. Dont think that he will change. No one changes. Trust me, you can do better.
2. He makes up excuses on why he cant see you. If the guy loves you, he will want to see you as often as he can. He isnt the right one if he avoids you. Trust me, you will get hurt.
3. He makes you feel like you cant hang out with your friends. Some girls believe that if a guy is jealous, that means he loves you. That's partly true. On the other hand, he should trust you enough to let you do your thing. A relationship is based on trust.
4. He demeans you. If he tells you that you aren't pretty enough, or you arent skinny enough, or you dont have a big enough chest, DUMP HIS ASS. Who is he to tell you that you aren't good enough for him? That just shows his insecurity.
5. Do you suspect your guy of cheating? Now this is a big thing for me personally. I believe that if a guy cheats, that means he is not respectful of your feelings.
6. How does he treat your family? If you have found the one, you will most likely marry him. You need to be sure that there wont be family drama when you get married. If he disses your family left and right, you dont need him. This is also a respect issue.
7. Most importantly, does he let you know how much you mean to him? And I am talking about his actions since actions speak louder than words. Is he proud of you? Does he compliment you? Does he consider himself lucky? If he doesnt, then you dont need him.
These are all the tips for today. Goodluck in finding you prince charming!!!!!
I must strongly agree with you on the tips of how to know if the guy is NOT for you. Every single one of them is true. On top of that, if your not the one to get out of such a relationship then, trust me, the relationship wont work anyways. He will end up leaving you. Even if you base your whole life's purpose around his interests tip toeing around all the crap. His respect level will lower even more towards you. It just wont work.
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